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It has been a hectic few weeks, my baby turned two (how do I have a two-year old?) and aswell as other friends parties, I’ve had some family stuff going on. I am someone who is completely run by emotions. When something isn’t going right in life, I find it very hard to concentrate on anything else. I went running on Monday, for the first time in a couple of weeks, it was like there was a weird block that was stopping me going…you know? Anyway I have so many posts lined up, so hopefully August will go a little smoother..

Anyway to pattern play, I actually saw a scene in one of Archer’s books of bright coloured simple square house, which is what inspired this pattern..I am also dreaming of a city escape soon..







When it comes to planning a wedding, which I have been doing for like three years now, there are a few things that I didn’t consider when looking at venues etc, and considering my budget.

Firstly lets look at the flowers for your venue. When booking your florist, make sure you give them all the details of your venue, and where and when you want them delivered. A floral delivery company, like most florists, will tend to deliver your beautiful blooms, but most charge quite a delivery fee, as the flowers tend to come in refrigerated vans to help keep them fresh. Our’s is charging £50 to deliver, and that’s a local florist to our venue, so take note when looking at florists, where they are located in regards to your venue, and how much the delivery is.


When you book your venues find out exactly what is covered in the initial cost, and ask about all the extras like chair covers, seat pads, cloth napkins etc. You may be surprised how the costs add up. Our venue had added extras, for example a £1 for a seat cushion (which we went for), £1 for clot napkins and even 50p to have blue glasses instead of standard clear glasses. Safe to say we decided not to go for the latter, as it would have added up to an extra £135. So make sure you know what’s offered.

Check the venue’s rules regarding parking/leaving et and make sure you get a local cab company booked out fr your guests. Especially if like our’s your venue doesn’t offer rooms, and the cars need to be out by 9am the next day. Get the lists and maybe add a note on the invitation, or let your guests know by email closer to the day so they can plan ahead.


Keeping to schedule. This is especially important if you are having a civil ceremony. registrar’s tend to have multiple wedding son and so they keep to a strict schedule so there’s no being late when our the bride. You have a time and you stick to it. Also the live band, DJ, and wedding day photographer are going to charge overtime, too. If you want them to stay on a couple more hours, they will charge an hourly rate which may need to be paid upfront. So keep this in mind, and maybe ask beforehand how much they cost if extra hours are needed so you aren’t shocked  by the costs.

Now if I am to be honest I havent looked into this, but wedding day insurance  might be useful especially for abroad weddings, and outdoor weddings. If a member gets ill, or a natural disaster stops everything from happening, like a flood for example it means your covered and you don’t lose a bunch of money. Being as I am getting married in 3 MONTHS, I fee; it’s a bit late now for me!

Gate crashers, or guests who weren’t able to attend suddenly show up– how are you going to deal with it? Firstly get rid of the gate crasher, give them a slice of cake and send them on their way. Regarding the guest who declined then randomly showed. I think keep calm, and politely thank them for coming. Thinking about it, it might be an idea you save some money back in case of such problem, so you have enough for the surprise guest (meaning the actual guest, not gate crasher!)


A quick note on how my planning is going, all I have left is the DJ, suits, rings and wedding dress…so yeah… not too much! ahhhhh




Ok so I love being a mummy to a boy, but is it just me, or as soon as the babies enter toddler years, especially boys, the clothes options go down hill a bit..There are super cute under 2 baby boy wear, not a lot, but still super soft and cute but above tw can be a bit blah. Now I am aware thatArcher is growing up, and I’m not going to be able to dress him cutely for very long, but while I still have some say, I don’t see why the options for boys are so limited. I mean, I’m ok with some character and branded stuff, but whats wrong with fun prints and patterns? Why is it a lot of boys clothes tend to be polo shirts and jeans? It’s not the most comfy for active kids plus they tend to look like tiny men no? All I’m saying is if I’m dressing Arch to resemble a tiny man, by god he is going to be wearing cute trousers with braces, a shirt, cap and brogues. He’s going to be channeling an old-timer. That is for sure! Anyway, I have this discussion so often with my mummy friends who have boys, and they totally get where I am coming from. So I thought I’d show you a couple of outfits each month, which are comfy, affordable and not necessarily character based or jeans! So enjoy!



Ok so this outfit is from Zara, I find that Zara do some really cute pieces for toddler kids and older kids too, nice patterns and soft cottons which are nice and breathable. This outfit was super cheap too. The lightening bolt t-shirt was £3.99 and goes from 3 months-4 years old. So great age range. The banana joggers, which by the way are more blue in person and undeniably cute, are £6.99 and have the same age range. So that’s a super cute outfit for like £11.




I am all about pattern and bold colours, and this little outfit is on of my favourites. The fish patterned jumper is from M&S but they no longer have it which sucks, but they have a rather sweet t-shirt in the same pattern which is £3.50. The shorts are from H&M, they have tiny parrots on and they are £4.99. The age range for them are 4 months- 3 years. They are so fricking cute!



This black hooded romper which in the pictures below I paired with a grey t-shirt, is so light and easy to move in. I also paired it with a cute Mickey Mouse hat which I got from Tesco’s. Anyway back to this romper, it’s from Next but typically I can’t find it on their site anymore but this one here is similar and still super cute and ranges from sizes 3-16 years.


cute-boys-clothes-style,-pattern-and-colourThis little outfit is a little more laid back, with the crocodile comic like pattern. This top is from M&S and costs £6.00, the shorts are just from George ASDA, and are just your casual grey cotton shorts.


So there are my outfit picks for the month, sorry they are all creased, my iron broke..hopfully next month will be a little more neater. Plus I am always trying to get pictures of Arch wearing the clothes so you can get a better look of how they fit..below are my poor attempts haha!

baby-boy-toddler-style-cloths-idea-layout baby-boy-style,-toddler-boy-modeling-next-clothesThe romper really is the cutest, I haven’t got a picture of Archer in his Zara outfit as it only came today, but I will post one on instagram as soon as he is in it. Which will probably be tomorrow!


Have a lovely weekend all, and if you know of any cute places that do boys clothes let me know in the comments, or drop me an email x






I feel like I say this every Wednesday, though I missed last’s week, but these weeks are going way to fast. I get married in like 4 months and next weekend Archer will be 2!! How do I already have a 2-year-old?? Crazy stuff!

Anyway to today’s pattern which is kind of inspired Yayoi Kusama. If you don’t know who I am talking about, take a look at her work…It’s breath taking!


So Happy Wednesday everyone x


budget friendly wood finihses for beginnersPhoto by Keith “Shin” Schindler, 2017

Woodworking is one of the most rewarding hobbies, generally requiring hours to carve, lathe, glue, route, sand, and lacquer pieces. Finishing woodworking projects usually takes less time than the first however-many steps particular projects require. Properly finishing makes pieces stand out and make others think or say out loud, “That’s nice work. Where did you buy it?” As such, finishing is very important to crafting high-quality works.

Without further ado, let’s touch over basic tips to make your finishing jobs pop and spur most people who see your works say, “Where did you buy that, anyways?”

Carefully removing left-over glue

It’s difficult sometimes to use just enough glue to hold pieces together without excess seeping out, causing your works to look tacky. Fortunately for you, here’s one good way to remove glue residue without damaging pieces themselves.

Place a drywall scraper flush against sides with excess glue to protect against scratches and scrapes. Next, gently chisel away excess adhesive. Remember, it’s best to leave a little excess following scraping than forcefully removing too much glue. Next, wrap fine-grit sandpaper around a scrap wood piece lying around and carefully sand away any excess left after chiseling.

Quickly, manually age varnished finishes

You could wait years for varnish finishes to gain timeless, rustic looks, or you could use this trick.

Get a brown paper bag, like those from convenience or grocery stores, crumple it up and unfold it. Keep crumpling and un-crumpling the paper bag until the bag is nice and worn. Fold it in a square or rectangle one or two times. Next, rub the now-worn paper bag in circles against varnished finishes.

Congratulations, your work now looks semi-rustic without having to wait years and years.

Evening out splotchy, visually unappealing stains

Every wood worker accidentally drops excess stain over pieces at least once in their woodworking careers. You can fix these goofy gaffes by wetting an old, clean shop rag and evenly spreading it across the goofed-up surface.

Gently rub the rag back, forth, and in circular motions. These movements even out the dye stain to make it less noticeable. Lather on a coat of shellac, then apply desired stain.

Use coffee cans for finishing stands

Finishing both sides of pieces often proves difficult. We might ask someone else — innocent bystanders totally uninvolved with your projects, our wives, friends, or even strangers — to hold a piece up while we finish both sides.

Without help, you must wait hours for finish to dry, and nobody wants to wait that long to finish projects. With a little modification, coffee cans can be our best finish-helping friends.

Drill three holes in the bottom of several coffee cans. Next, place screws in those drilled holes. You can place projects across three or more coffee cans to hold them up. Screw tips are minuscule, allowing you to finish both sides without waiting for them to dry.

Implement these tips into your woodworking projects and your work look better, be better, and take less time. You can thank me later!



polka-dot-pattern-wfEach week I do this I find myself trying to stay away from the pink, a colour that I am completely obsessed with at the moment, but alas the battle was not won this time and I really don’t care but this pattern is super simple and effective. You could even mimicking this with a circle shape object to create a stamp. I love the idea of getting this one blown up too and put on my ever-growing pink gallery wall.  So Hope you are all having a lovely Wednesday, seriously where is the time going? How are we in July already, and how is it that at the end of July I have a two-year old…CRAZY GUYS!


Anyway enjoy your Wednesday’s all




How is it Wednesday again already? ANybody else think that the weeks are going by way too quickly? Anyway, I have a rather fun selection of patterns today, designed on photoshop, I played around with lots of different colour combos, I think these would be cute as possible wallpapers, but let me know what you think. Also if you want to follow along I’d love to see your patterns, use the #wflovespattern


Here are my other variations, I love the black and white one with the spot of colour. What are your thoughts?







I’m consider getting this last one blown up and framed.. if you like the idea of this too, make sure you check out my Society 6 shop!




Ok, so my office is very nearly finished, but after I was asked about doing a post on how I style special decor items, my immediate thought of what room to show was my office. Since buying our first house, I have loved bringing out my style, pushing boundaries (even Richards) with decor ideas and just showcasing our very many special things. So let’s get straight to it yes?

First lets talk about my statement wall. If you look back at this post you can see my many ideas for my wall including the one I finally went with. Because this is my office, I wanted bright bold colours and patterns that inspire me everyday. The aim for the office was to be eye-catching and a conversation piece, and I definitely think this hits the spot.


Pink is a big colour in my palette at the moment, and so the pops and different shades of pink just make the area super fun. With built-in storage to the left, I am able to display some special items. Because in my opinion anything special you have  should not be hidden away. On my storage shelf one of the most precious items of mine is the gold glass box. But it’s not the box more the contents. It holds Polaroids pictures from the last ten years. Its family members, special events, pictures of Archer growing up, precious memories to me, and I love having them out and being able to go through them and think back to all the good times I have had.  I then have the large oversized photograph that I took of the tree in the rented house we lived in before the house we are in now. This is special to me because I was pregnant in this house, and it will always be Archer’s first home.  To me photographs are some of the most precious items I have, and I want to be surrounded by memories constantly. Sometimes displaying pictures in a box and leaning a large frame against a wall or shelf can add a really nice dynamic structure to a room.


Next I have my bar cart, which is just an Ikea bookcase with spray painted legs attached to it. I will do a big post on this once it’s completely stocked. Now I know what your thinking, how is this sentimental and why a bar cart in the office. I think everyone should have a bar in their office and this idea goes back to my Grandma and Grandads old house. My memory of my Grandad was him sitting in his study, surrounded by photographs, books, his writing desk and his bar. His old school bar was amazing, and I even have a few items on here which my Grandma gave me when she finally moved. The ice bucket down in the left corner box was theirs, it’s a beautiful rose gold inside, and I have a couple of cocktail bottles that she gave me too. The rest of the items of things I have, I have collected over the years, just waiting for the day when I would have my own bar in my home. I have a beautiful wooden flamingo (obviously) that my mother brought me, and hand sourced items from all over. The pink glass bowl was a charity find, and the cactus are planted in old beer cans, which suits the subject beautifully, no? The bar still needs more things added but I love the variety of height and texture, always try to vary height when placing objects on the shelf. I also love adding texture via glasses, all my items which are still available will be listed at the end.


Adding objects on different heights gives a greater sense of space, and uses the layout nicely. Trying puting objects on books, and finding items in a variety of heights and textures.


Don’t forget a neon sign for a fun element too, it is a bar after all.


office-wall-statement-wall-Here is another look of the back of my office, I went for a salmon pink and a light teal green to give a really fun Miami beach hut effect, keeping with a similar theme I brought some bar accessories in pink and white tones, and used the green of the cactus to contrast with pink. I am in love with how this is turning out, and I am hoping the rest of the office will be finished soon to show you.

I got a lot of inspiration from Havenly. I am quite confident when it comes to making bold decor decisions but if you’re not to sure they have a great design service which could really help inspire you, so go check them out.

Here are the links to where you can find some of the items I have shown.


1.  Neon circle vase, Urban Outfitters,  2. Pink felt letter board,,  3. Grace: A memoir, Grace Coddington Amazon,   4. Crystal head vodka, 31 Dover,  5. Capture your style, Aimee Song, Amazon,    6. Oil slick cocktail set, Hello Blush,   7. Celebrate everything, Darcy Miller, Amazon,  8. Oh Joy, Joy Cho, Amazon.


Sadly the rest of the items are no longer available but here are some cheeky tips on where to get some beautiful pieces. Check back on Anthropology regularly because there sales are amazing, I got quite a bit of my glass ware and cute pink coasters for a fraction of the price, also the sales on Urban Outfitters are great too. I wanted that vase for a month of so and kept checking back until it was on offer, thankfully my gamble paid out. And never forget charity shops and car boots, go hunting for your unique pieces.


Thanks for reading all!





Ok, so I say routine, it’s been a couple of  weeks, but thinking positive and all that jazz. Archer’s new wake up time is 5, so my new wake up time is now 5. YAY. Seriosuly slowly killing me, but I am striving to get used to being an over-achiever morning person. I mean I found the 6am start a struggle. Let’s just hope it stops at 5am. Seriosuly is this kid even ours? Me and Richard could happily sleep in til 1..not very productive. But hey we are totaly sleep bunnies. And due to Richards shift work, and me being overly awesome/the stay at home mum, Im one up playing trains on the floor at 5 am.

Anyway, this isn’t just my new routine of getting up, I’ve also decided to try and make some use of the early morning rise. So me and Arch have started going out running. I find I need to do something otherwise I’d lay on the couch in a half slumber, which isn’t great for my energy levels, and it tends to lead to Arch sneakily covering him self in pen while I pathetically watch him with one eye closed. So yes we have started running. Well, a jog like jaunt with walking in between.

I got into running the summer before my last year of uni, and got to the point I was able to run for a good 40 mins at a nice pace. Since then I have tried to get back into. Cue a sprained ankle the following year, then cue pregnancy with a bunch of morning sickness next. I got out of running due to a super hectic 3rd year schedule and meeting Richard. I managed to gain a couple of stone in the first 6 months of being with Richard, due to large portions and generally being happy and comfortable. So anyway, back to my morning runs.

I’ve just finished my last run of this week, which was run for 90 seconds walk for 90 seconds x5. But the last run I did for 2 minutes just to see if I was able, as tomorrow its the big run for 2 minutes, walk for 2 minutes. I’m following this program below, but I edited it a little. I started off with week 2 where I took the walk down by 1 minute, and with week 3 I took the walk time down by 90 seconds just to try and improve my recovery time. So I did run 1 minute walk 2 x5, then run 90 seconds walk 90 seconds x5.

So I’ve been running for a couple of weeks, and it’s quite a nice way to start my morning. Though pushing a pram while running is pretty tough. I finish with a  cool down, where I walk home and let Arch out of the pram so he can have a run around too. He seems to enjoy it. Plus there is no way I could run in the middle of the day…you all enjoying the heat wave!!??

Here is the program if you fancy giving it a go.




How are you all handling this heat? I am not..the warm weather isn’t too bad, it’s all the flies that come in when you must have all your doors and windows wide open..nightmare. Anyway my plants are loving the heat, and I was in a rather floral mood hence today’s theme for my pattern Wednesday. Also I have started using Society 6, so if you like the look of any previous patterns take a look here where you can get them. Print form, framed prints and even a couple of bath mats ( hello egg print from last week).


Anyway enjoy, and here’s to the last hump of the week going fast. Tag your patterns at #wflovespattern